描述
Across Igbo land in southern Nigeria, mothers are held in high esteem. This is evident in every facet of the people’s culture. Common names given to daughters in Igboland include Nneoma, meaning “good mother” and Nneka, “mother is supreme.” Attaining motherhood is considered a great rite of passage for Igbo women. In the olden days, Igbo women gave birth on banana leaves spread out just outside their husband’s compound. Irrespective of where a woman chooses to deliver, birth is strictly a female event and men are not allowed to attend or be close by.
Prior to birth, women go into seclusion and her father is the only male allowed to visit. During this time, her most important companion is her own mother who cooks, cleans and cares for her while training her in preparation for childbearing.
The reproductive principle in ‘omumu’ (birthing) finds its bearing from the biologic of ‘nne’ or mother, which is so vital in Igbo mentality that its expressions can be easily found in all aspects of the people’s culture. Many communities trace their origin to a historical mother, or father with his mother.
